Monday, February 28, 2011

Clear Lady Speed Deoderant Stick

This school.

Normal


We are many families (and some teachers) that we walk concerned about the education of our children and in particular the so-called "education system" of our country and the options it offers.

Some families choose private schools different methodologies (Waldorf, Montessori ..), others choose to educate home (homeschooling is a movement with a extensive experience in other countries) and the most, choose a public school or private concert near our home, standard methodology, and what I have seen, barely evolved towards education of thirty years.

We can say that, alongside academic learning, school intended as a platform for life in society. For this reason, learning is never individual (although sometimes it is individual attention to a child), but an experience of group growth. And so, depending on how school is structured primarily on the basis of the methodology used to teach, many times the child is asked to moderate his personal initiative based on a group activity or that critical to reserve your home. And as long as this system, so the group can move forward is to show blind obedience to authority. The obvious result is that the failure to exercise personal autonomy and a critical kill the child even the smallest glimmer of creativity.

But we are witnessing is also a disturbing dichotomy, from school for as long as we are required to families to empower children and stimulate their maturation and their ability to make decisions ... in parallel, the same school required the children to bend to the will group (s ie, to surrender their autonomy) and not stand over the top or the bottom (ie, to follow the "norm").

At school, children do what they have to do and certainly do not expect them to propose a way to run different from that stated. Thus perpetuating a kind of education one way, which is the teacher who has the knowledge and who decides how to manage it, while the child is the passive receptacle of this knowledge. The value of each, also measured in terms of achievements (in many cases only has the ability to store data) and sometimes little or no value processes. is actually the closest thing to the "authoritarian parenting education" which theoretically should be avoided in favor of more teaching positions.

In any case, what takes place during these years is a huge addition (and sometimes surprisingly random) knowledge that comes from the interest or maturity each child but is imposed from outside (now time to talk about numbers, letters now).

and social level is the assimilation of a system in which to form a group and thrive within the same, one must always obey a superior, because neither the leadership or autonomy, or originality, or critical spirit are values \u200b\u200bthat benefit to its development but, quite the contrary, they hinder.

Thus, the system rewards the children who remain in the half and "do what they should" and excludes those who for one reason or another deviate from it. Poets, musicians, free thinkers, radicals, leaders, sensitive, too smart or too little are usually labeled different and rejected because, obviously, goes against the interests of the education system.

Up here we see the problem clearly: the children of parents with less traditional (or modern) is a major effort we operate in a home and another at school. And our children will absorb that cost a few years so what home are applauded in school are punished.

And in a sense, this could be a relatively tolerable if the school actually was a real learning for life in society; would say "well, this is a bit messy, but is necessary because when my son grows really worth it for this learning life. " But it is not. Or at least not totally.

It is if tomorrow our son is required to run a series of actions without question and do it very well (and of course there is still work consisting of this.) And it is also in the sense that it is indeed important to know to function according to rules and modular drives to live with others (obviously, not all system failures).

But of course it is not the time to play any mission in life requires an ability to generate concepts and products themselves, to lead an idea, or simply to improvise, to be autonomous, creative and decisive .

may last thirty years our educational system was the best because it really preparing for the future lifestyle of the majority. But today, our economic and social model tends increasingly in the other direction, becoming more socially and personally valued aspects such as divergent thinking or creativity, originality and ability to see things differently from others, to adapt to change (constant in our current economic system and labor). All aspects definitely not part of the value system of our school, but rather the opposite.

In our daily witness the triumph of all that a few years ago was "alternative" or "minoritatio" and are precisely the free minds the most shine. why I pay for a very hard to understand how a country can move forward if the citizens of tomorrow are educated from yesterday.

And frankly I do not know when or if you live a change someday I will live. What I know is that the only way I can think of being part of the school without dying in the attempt is supplemented from home the terrible shortcomings's disability, coping the best way possible with a teacher who somehow also a victim of this system and relying heavily on our children and their ability to remain themselves nonetheless.

In any case, the witness lies in ourselves, families (and politically us, the citizens). On one side is a responsibility that adds to the already complicated work-life balance and the overwhelming lack of resources and support networks for parenting. On the other hand is a privilege because this need requires us to participate actively in the education of our children and we can show that there are more ways of knowing and being.

Violeta Alcocer.
Image: Juan Pablo Caro

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Wall Paint For Red Floor

very cold walk with Dad




Yesterday Philip and Elijah went to walk away from Mom to Horno 3. Last night, my husband and I had gone for my first of time and we wondered how it would be for Elijah the way, if you would fear the rise or if you do boring, but as you will see in the pictures very well and pass it to their WOW
expression was

Going up the elevator

Posing

wow ... that high!




Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Brown Mucus No Period Pregnant



¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ Elijah turned 6 yesterday !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Since she is a baby, a month before I start to tell him that going to a birthday, but this time I catch flown, and with more knowledge of what is a birthday, and as we celebrate, because every day, included in every sentence that he wanted a Batman cake. And every time I heard the word 'party' or 'birthday' on I said much to her so that was turning 6 years and wanted a cake batman.

still unsure how we would celebrate, but Elijah gave us a clue, clown wanted for his birthday. So with the help of the family in a week we organize a "small" party with little more than 40 guests, family and friends who live together often and have children from the age of Elijah who love him.

And Batman had his cake
And all the guests were waiting .....
And clowns come ..... (Btw, super recommended! Clown Swat )
and 'closed eyes' and made a wish .....
and I hit the piñata
Yesterday in his mere birthday! :) We had a party at the kindergarten, you can see they love him!



Center
Then the party continued
Down




Monday, February 21, 2011

Female Animal Genetailia Gallery

Too Late ...


Blood stained my shirt. The pain was tremendous. I was so stunned that I even know how to get there. "Quick," shouted someone. Then I fainted ...

When I awoke, the pain was gone. Not recognize this room that made me shudder. After a few seconds I realized I was not alone.

"So you're Jack ... I had hoped.
- Me? "I missed.
"Follow me.

took me to another room full of people who lined up in two rows, but I still did not know where he was.

-will know in what should be expected, right?

Chills ran through my body with increasing intensity. Fear began to take hold of me in the middle of a deafening silence that would not let me say a word.

- Do not you know? Did I think that would not end paying for all his crimes the man continued ...?- cynical laughter I charge in the row to the left if you do not mind ...

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NOTE: writing workshop exercise consists in making a story as last phrase was "I charge in the row to the left if you do not mind. "

Free Bridge Blueprints

Have fun!





Years ago I read an article that I checked. I do not remember the author (memory is not my thing) but his message struck a chord me and invited me to make one of those thoughts that go on for years and eventually end up becoming one of the many threads that guide our everyday actions.
So to start, and I do not remember his name, at least I want to thank this person how much you gave me your nice article.

In the text the author talked about his childhood and youth and how he felt privileged because his mother always said goodbye to him, saying: "have fun" instead of "be careful" or "carry on well." The speech was what he was saying that he deeply appreciated the fact his mother was not prompt him to grow up in fear, specifically fear of being happy and that these "Have fun" over the years incorporated as part of itself and long after, mature, considered a person capable of facing challenges with optimism. He thought of his attitude to life he owed to "pass it along" with his mother showered her childhood.

The attitude and words that speak volumes about her mother and also contain in themselves all a rebellion against the established "that the child never guessed, but the adult self-and above all, an absolute confidence in the son he had. I imagine that those words also were accompanied by many other small gestures and everyday treatments that fed on his son what was later a good self-esteem and attitude towards life clean and brave.

When you farewell with a "Have fun" at the door of the school, grandma's house or at a birthday party full of kids .. It indicates the possibility of enjoyment of any experience over the fear that something happens to the child or "misbehaves."

In fact, when an alert with a "Be good" seems she was taking for granted, so prophetic unfairly, that "misbehaving" is the most likely outcome of the day. The same applies to the "watch" or much worse with the "do what you say. "

And here we come to another important issue is the question of how parents often value our children for their achievements rather than their processes and are more aware of the results of way to our little walk to reach them. Because ultimately, what we really want our son when moving away from us towards a class or give us a hug before disappearing behind the door of the house of your best friend? What do we expect from him, what purpose we prioritize the rest? Does your behavior or your experience?

"Have fun" is powerful and contains within itself an excellent starting point ("Any experience can be enjoyed"), a great confidence in our son ("I know you're going to handle well your alone there where you ") and the healthy development of all these fears that we put the child unconsciously every time we parted from him (" something horrible can happen to you or something you do fatal. ").

is also a healthy criticism against the establishment and questioned a society that seems the only thing that matters is the frivolity the proper performance and the fun is only related to leisure and off (or "misbehaving") ... never work, to fulfill personal commitments or small daily routines so happy can actually reach us.

Even beyond all that, also reflects an optimism shining, a nice attitude to life and transmits one of the best messages you can receive a child, later today can enjoy, you can be happy, have fun my complicity, can make mistakes without fear and all it on trust that will look after yourself as best you know and you behave in the best way you can.

happiness is a desire expressed no reservations ... l or truth is that I can think of better fortune.

Violeta Alcocer.
Illustration: Patricia Metola.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Sell Bey Blades Australia

6 years almost 6 years ...... Many tasks

Hello! because first of all let me tell them I'll be back with you more often! I know last year I was very neglected this blog, but not anymore!

I've been thinking I want to do with this blog, besides sharing with you the life of Elijah, so I'm trying to share a little more about how we work, putting material that has served us, looking for ideas etc. Reading a blog also gave me the idea that I have to better document as a working session with Elijah, because the photos appear that everything is hunky and sweet in this house lol.

Next Monday is the birthday of Elijah 6! SIX! as this happen so fast? She is a baby always start to tell from before and going to birthday, this year was no exception, but this year I said I wanted a Batman cake. Why? not! but is easily one month telling us several times a day, just in case and we forget it? hehe after presenting other options (because on his birthday 3 his party was Batman) fails to change its choice.

So tomorrow will begin the festivities! First in the Church when she sang Happy Birthday and form the largest line of greeting! seriously, I think that anyone in the church or with Pastor (which is my father) was a big row: p So I'm delighted because it means people want it!
After lunch we will have the classic home of the grandparents of my husband, every year is different, this year there will be clowns! at the request of Elijah. :)

Monday, which is the day of his birthday celebration at the kindergarten in the morning with his friends from school, and in the afternoon at the Down Center with peers, teachers and moms:)
I leave you with photos of previous years

1 year:: Stitch






2 years: Pablo (Backyardigans)

3 years: Pocoyo


4 years: Batman


5 years: Buzz Light year

Monday, February 14, 2011

Bollywood Actresses Fullywithout Clothes

The Javichuela ...



Use old clothes ripped and full of patches. His hands are so dirty black hair and carries them bundles made so greasy it always has, when you smile reveals a full denture of nicks and number of wrinkles on his face shows that it is an older man.

With his guitar in tow the Javichuela is offering their art for the local bars on the long walk. Sometimes some customers do not even bother to look at it and keep talking as if he were invisible, but nevertheless still happily playing his guitar in his attempt to finish getting some monedilla.

occasionally When someone praises your good touch, their big blue eyes, which surprisingly have not lost sheen, light up as if they were an embarrassment and, thankfully, let your voice be torn boot bulerĂ­as.



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Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Prostate Survival Gleason

..... and a video:)


Well here we have been very cold, so we've been missing too much school, but the teacher has been letting the task ahead. The truth we were well overdue, so we got acquainted in recent days and has been a cry and fight with Elijah.

Because he does not want to do the job, gets all silly, does not want anything. Well they're out there trying to motivate, to push, etc to do so, in short, it took a good but fails to do so, and it is not possible, just do not want to.

now also must set a date and your name to the task, so now I am with their names, what good is easy so we'll both take to learn to write.

Here I leave you with a videito where this noting your full name


Tuesday, February 1, 2011

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Primary!

It arrived the day! February 1, delivery of assignments!

Here in Mexico, when you fill the application put 4 choices of schools and the SEP (Secretariat Public Education) gives you the assignment!

I can not believe it! Elijah goes to primary! as has happened so fast that time? Two years ago was receiving the award letter kindergarten, suffering because he had little time to train Elijah with the trip to the bathroom!

We played in the school we wanted!

Well I do not know, but that is near, it's where most of the children and also have support teacher.

course! are concerns, nerves, typical a mom. Is it not?

few weeks ago I had a talk with the teacher Algeria, Down Center teacher Integration program. She goes and visits to kindergarten, and see which program is, how to work in that battle, which can support etc.

Ok
told all my concerns, and many came from the situation my friend, the truth is that much reassured me by telling me that not all schools are the same, sadly, depends on the school, director, teacher, etc support.

But anyway, we're on the road, we will continue enjoying the kindergarten, the environment, and throwing forward and preparing for what follows in August ... Elementary! :)